Do You Think Love Hurts Or Makes Happiness

can't categorize for it.... love makes happiness but it hurts too....
a child is happy playing with a toy and it hurts when the same is taken away....
the path of love is full of hardships... for some it hurts and for some it gives happiness....
love is love, we cant make a difference. its just the way to look at and to feel it....
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love doesnt always have to hurt ,and sometimes love can bring only happiness?.............

for that i say no.... where there is love, there is happiness and so it hurts.... it like two sides of a coin...

this can be true too

i think love , makes happiness

ideally love should make happiness:)

thats the ideal..........you can not know what happiness means,unless you know what pain is?

so both happiness and hurt always go together....its fair?hehehe

if love hurts then is not love

good point !!

LOVE at first bring happiness...........but time goes by their are obstacle to overcome and if you did not overcome its HURT.its the 2 people involved will decide if they want their love to happier or painful......but i will say LOVE is wonderful whatever meaning you put on it..........hehehe

it is true that if you can not over come obstacles there is hurt ......communication is real important

yes thats true.............tnx

Love will hurt you and it will give you happiness at the same time..Love gives u so much inspiration and it will make u happy..love will hurt you if no one learns how to give way..we should learn how to accept that love is painful but on the other hand love is glory..im in love and i feel both..when there is so much LOVE then there is Agony...

It depends on a lot of factors like one's atmosphere, belief, psychology, desire, selection, selfishness or sacrifice and so on.
Who can mach smartly with these factors have the great chance to have happiness from love and vice versa.

However, there's another angle of thinking- when the selection is wrong and one is hurt tremendously, love may not be lasting there.
So in most cases while there is happiness, there is love and vice versa again.
Finally, you can't make a comment that's true for all as there's some people who continue loving even receiving haters, torture etc from partner. May be true love, excess emotion or foolishness is the reason behind it.

So, it doesn't matter- love brings what. Love is love, that's all.

hmm well love in all its ways brings us happiness and peace :)

but life is life..and there many ups and downs..so if we dont know how to keep love up..it might bring us hurt also

so if we know how to act..and what's more important: communicate with ur lover..don't ever let boredom get between you 2 :)

hope all of u will be loved well..:P
God bless you..best wishes for all :)

exactly no one can describe it...

but in my opinion if you are loving, caring, understandable...
must be honest...

you must be compromise in nature.., must listen others,
it will makes you happy..
and u will enjoy...

but in other sense it always make u tense, coz love alway requires

needs,
cares,
honesty,
loyal to others... and more..

and you can understand how many persons they are following those requirements...

so the conclusion is.......

It's depend on you you can make ur life with full of happiness

or

make like a hell.........................

:)

love only hurts when it ends

i think so too,but if love ends is it true love?

ofcoarse it is love is anything but stagnent,it evolves,its alive,so i has to die at some time

i believe real love is ever lasting

thats a nice thought,guess you've found love,true love.i'll let you know if i ever get that lucky :)

Love can make happiness if can begginning process going to right moment, we can stand and waits for enjoy with the process. But was be upset if something that someone has said......or DONE !!! was deeply hurt. " Hurt Surpprise ."

hi, debbie
h r u?
i think, this is depend on the desire.....and It's simple,
really. How do you feel?

When we are in the process of love things we desire, we feel
good, happy, content, perhaps even excited about life.

When we are in the process of loving things we do not desire...
we feel discord, disharmony, gloom,, in this case we hurt ourself first.. and the others later on.

why when in the process of loving things do we not desire??.......

...yahh, why? ... love and disere. i think this like 2 common qs

r we do what we love? ... r we love what we do?

there is no perfect person, sometimes we feel attraction to some one, some resist this attraction and some fall in, if this person is not accept us or we find him not so good as we like ... what ll we do? the attraction is the desire and the do is the love

the do is the love is true:)

for me its better to love then hurt..rather than hurt and not to love at all..
love as long as you live...

good way to be

Love Cannot Hurt.

When one loves someone, one creates happiness for the one being loved.

When one is in a relationship and stops loving it follows also that happiness is not created anymore. So it hurts. It hurts because Love is not there anymore.

One person already stops loving.

but than love can hurt ?

when two people *create* a relationship, there is affinity in love there, there is understanding -- meaning -- love is reciprocated.

it hurts only when understanding is no longer there.

it's like when you ask someone or talk to someone and you don't get an answer or a reply, a space is created and this space becomes bigger and larger till you cannot occupy the same space with this person any longer. and you just leave and go on to ask someone else so that your question get an answer. and u don't get a big hurt by this.

in a relationship there is a couple of sticky element -- commitment & responsibility. this is what makes it hurt. because this two element gets in the way when two people cannot come into agreement.

disagreement is basically the result of not understanding in common of what commitment is and what responsibility is. there must be a common understanding of what these are before two can agree.

it is simple but it is not easy.

what makes it difficult? -- ass-u-me.

two people have wonderful feelings towards each other and so *assume* (in the back of there minds) that each of there ideas of commitment & responsibility is understood but also the question of *do we really have the same understanding?* is not answered just yet, so they *again assume* an answer.

it does seem harmless but when two people just assume, there actions will speak louder and soon enough they will see it louder. and find themselves making an *ass of each other* -- that is actually what assume means -- making an ass of u and me -- ass-u-me.

Love cannot hurt. Perhaps, it was not love at all. 'twas something else.

But on the other hand, love has become a meaningless word.

how is love a meaningless word? ....

people can love and disagree which can cause hurt

meaningless in a sense that not everyone know what love really is.

language today has evolved so fast especially the english language. it is successfully exported to a number of countries and also picks up words from these countries.

not only that, from which it originates, the meaning, the usage, the context, etc, etc also evolved and continues to evolve.

that when we ask what love is, we would get different answers, and some of these answers would conflict accross different groups, age, gender, race, creed, and the like.

**I love your picture, I love ice cream, but when it comes to this: I love you--it can also mean I lust you**

it can mean lust, but i think most people requardless of what country gender etc.......people in general usually know what "love"is

meaningless in a sense that even tho' we know what love means our actions doesn't show what love really is.

some people have a harder time expressing love than others........everyone expresses love differently..........but all in all u know when u are loved

love is everything in todays life without this life has no meaning ....

love is very strong the feelings if its real are deep love dosent hurt you its the feelings that expresses love that hurt weather it joy or pain......my question is what is real love? is it the dizzy blonde that gets everything like the fary tales say or is it the everyday joe that gets the girl next door?

good question..if u like make it a topic:)

love is a very deep feelings....it is consist of all positive sensation that makes us feel happy....but how does make it hurting....when all those positive and beautiful feelings you enduring turn into negative, that will lead to partings of ways..
Love and Hurt most of the time goes hand in hand, it is on the acceptance that makes it work.

It depends on Karma i think so.

do u believe in karma?

Hi Debbie, i did not mean the karma in Zorpia, but i thought:

The word karma (Sanskrit, Devanagari: कर्म; 'artificial', 'action'; paaliksi kamma) is usually Buddhism, Hindu and Jain occurring in the cause and effect performance teachings.

These teachings of every living creature current presence is a direct result of past acts. Karma is such acts of the ever-changing sum.

Have a nice day Sue

karma is an interesting concept:)

yes i do.